Single with Conditional Availability
Just before few days( The initial period when Sir Jadeja hits the market), in an early evening time i got a post in my Facebook News Feed "Tammana poked Rohit Sharma on FB". That post was the funniest post of that day because, just before few days Tammana was linked with Sir Jadeja due to his heroics in some match and before that she was linked with Virat Kohli due to his Celkon Moblile advertisement. It's fine because social media is all about fun and entertainment. But reality is a hard pill to swallow. The very difficult question a person faces now a days "What is your current relationship status?". Take a bit of time and imagine the depth of difficulty lies in this question and the answer will be(I would like to see the answer in the comment of this post) "semiti chalichi aau (My answer)"....
So then "what does a relationship status exactly means?". According to social media viz. Facebook, Relationship status can be grouped into "Single","In a Relationship", "Engaged", "In an Open Relationship", "It's Complicated", "Separated" for bachelors . All the status is self describing except It's complicated because level of complicacy is difficult to measure. Out of these what is the ideal one then? If you ask your friend or colleague or anyone "are u happy in your life in terms of relationship?" , then answer will definitely surprise you. Single guys will tell we need a girl friend and In a relationship guys will tell it's very difficult to manage the relation now and don't ask about complicated guys(Their life became complicated for life time ). Former will tell you guys are lucky and later will tell you guys never try to enter this world. So funny and confusing isn't it?
Happiness is something that's lies within. If you are able to manage things smartly, then happiness will spread throughout your life like roses. As far as my knowledge concerned "Happiest people are those who just fall in love (Initial Stage) or just engaged with someone (Initial stage) " . After those period you never know what is going to happen with your life. Either you will get frustrated as your lover will deny you( Just because she/he doesn't have feelings for him/her) for the former and for latter case as the time will progress they will start fighting in small small issues and longevity of love may lower (Not in every case. Successful love still there ) and they feel they have done the mistake in falling love with each other.
So, what is then ideal relation again? Stay single, enjoy with your single friends, avail yourself with T&Cs(Take a chance, fulfill your desire and move on), But don't make a compromise between Gold Flake and Girl Friend(Only for men).
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That zz awesome padu, Thought of reading a lot of it, but it ended abruptly :P
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Thankz bhai...
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ReplyDeleteAwesome buddy...mistakes is jus a term I see deep moving thoughts here ...
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Thankz buddy
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